A while ago I talked to my friend who goes crazy and you have to do for her daughter and mother, as she loses health between one thing and another.
has to meet his granddaughter, and does so small, they barely get words of encouragement by his daughter, and that he had always thought it was better than other / os.
When we speak, I feel sadness, lack of control coming to the paranoia and seeing what happens is the norm, always told her she could be happy with it, as he visited with some frequency.
Finally broke and I said what happened in reality but only that one, despite having her around, and like other kids than just thinking about them, everything looks bad, can not open his mouth or to comment, as if they were younger given the right of parents psychological abuse that hurts the same or worse than others.
If that was not enough, his mother suffered a few months ago a psychic and physical disorder, having to be fed, clothed and cared for her. To top it falls in the presence of the caregiver that was at home, breaking his pelvis, which ultimately has felt the need to take to a residence, beautiful, with a bundle impressive pay, and today is broken explaining, what I already knew, so I took my mother to one where he spent the same or worse than her, and took her to my house, where at least he could die in my arms, staffed and supervised by an assistant and me more responsible , which perhaps gave him all the affection that previously had not given by these or other reasons that are irrelevant.
I sometimes say it, and I do not charge, say, no, I believe deeply, when I have need is being cared for by someone, I pray the Lord that day will take me, but not before Nineta do that, just thinking it would be without me, I'm dying of pain.
She knows where all my stuff, and I have said, do not tell anyone, because if you do not care one, not worth it, to make the newsprint on my burning if they came, so avoid the scenes and the Paripe, if not answered in life, I do not want my death.
the end of the conversation, seems to be making the decision to take it with her, it would be best brought to Lloret de Mar, has a beautiful panoramic view, a huge garden, which smells like grass and flowers, and not contaminated air you breathe in Barcelona, \u200b\u200bwith the noises day and night live on a main road that crosses much of the city.
And is the dilemma
....¿ If you come here with his mother, who will attend his granddaughter of months?
sometimes talk about it, and say ... Why not marry the couple? And you come with that, they do well so that if papers, if you let them, that if not ...... I do not convince these couples than at any time will each one hand and eventually left without rights .....
And I go back to my youth, I looked after my children and working at home today with new technologies, which have much better to earn money while cuidarlos.Pero and are ordering a lot, and listen to some ... .. as if to be older and were not entitled to give his opinion.
I spoke today in the residence that also luxurious, they are half asleep, asked to answer their needs and how you say '.. Do not have a diaper? Then do it and you're done!
But how can be so irresponsible? Do not know how uncomfortable it can be on top?
I think the residents should have many more inspections and not allowed to profit from, in addition to not having them treated as they deserve, just because they are older, and some can not even talk .....
How sad! I do not want to go through that ever .....
ANGELINA GOMEZ RUEDA
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